“You wanna run the place? Right well shut up then.” – Basil Fawlty
A fresh faced 18 year old boy turns up at a canal side pub for his first day of work. He enters and asks his new manager what he wants him to do. The manager tells him to collect dirty plates from outside and make sure everyone had enjoyed their food. The boy carries out these orders and after a while approaches a kindly old man with an empty plate. “Was your food okay?” asks the boy as he picks up the plate. The old man looks him in the eye, says “I haven’t tasted fish like that since my wife died” and winks at the boy.
That boy was me. And that old man is now long dead (probably). I’ve worked in pubs on and off since I was 18. I’ve worked for two pubs owned by two different breweries in the same town. Here are some things that I learnt.
DRINK DRIVING IS VERY REAL (AS ARE AFFAIRS) OR: HOW I LEARNED TO STOP WORRYING AND LOVE LEAVING MY MORALS AT THE DOOR
Prior to starting work in catering I thought drink driving laws were largely obeyed by the public. With it, you know, being a law and all that. Turns out once you work with alcohol it’s treated like a weird little half remembered footnote. One of those weird state laws in America like how in Alaska it’s illegal to wake a sleeping bear to take a photo. The first time I saw someone get behind the wheel absolutely terracotta I couldn’t believe it. I mentioned it to a fellow staff member and they just shrugged. You become so deadened to it that you’ll stop feeling guilty and just hope they hit a tree when they crash and not a pedestrian/cyclist/school bus. We had one regular who would always drink two bottles of Pinot Grigio and drive home. By the time I left (and had started driving) I had a grudging respect for his abilities.
It’s similar for affairs. As someone who feels guilty about things that have nothing to do with them I was astounded at people (men) who would unashamedly bring their wife to the pub on a Friday and their mistress on a Saturday. I’ve been told this is fairly common at pubs off the beaten track as people think they’ll never be seen. Less common perhaps is when people take their affair to a far more physical level like, I don’t know, engaging in after hours coitus in the car park when the entire staff force are sat there drinking and smoking their misery away. One time a woman came in and ordered a bottle of champagne with two glasses. She sat and waited for a considerable amount of time until she received a phone call. I don’t know what was said but I do know she ended the phone call by saying “stay with your fucking wife then” and throwing the bottle of champagne at a wall. Normally you’re not directly involved in any way and you just stand and watch as these people destroy their lives but not always. Once I was sombrely called into the office to see our manager. Fearful, naturally, I sat and asked what was happening. My manager informed my “if X’s wife calls you can’t say he’s here or that you’ve seen him.”
You’ll meet some awful, awful people. That’s true of anything involving the public. The majority of people are horrendous. The tip to succeed in customer service though, is to be polite and courteous to all customers; whether that be a gentlemen with swastikas on his knuckles or Dave Lee Travis.
PEOPLE ON CANAL BOATS ARE WEIRD.
In the UK and Venice there are things known as canals. Essentially roads made of water they were used to transport things around the country until horses were invented. They exist now as picturesque references to a time before problem solving. Both pubs I worked at were situated on a canal.
This may come as a shock to some but a reasonable amount of people live on canals. Not in a house or a flat but in a boat. Working in a pub just next to a canal these people will make up a fair amount of your customers. These boat dwellers can be split roughly into two camps; ‘boaties’ and ‘old people who have retired to live on a boat’.
Boaties are people who seem to live on a boat because they have been shunned by the societies of dry land. I have known many and liked several. They will come into a pub, try all the ales (no matter how often they come in) and order a pint of the strongest one. They range from Bukowski inspired wastrels to would-be vagrants.
‘Old people who have retired to live on a boat’ are largely self-explanatory. They are invariably old people who have decided to spend their retirement living on a barge (canal boat). They’re Enid Blyton style folks, the like of which will be all dead and gone forever in the next 30 years. They must have had some odd, jingoistic, middle-England idea of canals and living on a canalboat but you can see in their eyes they regret choosing to live out their days sloshing about atop the UK’s largest septic tank.
For sake of ease drug dealers will be grouped in the boatie category and miserable, ill-thought out, middle class holidays will be grouped in the ‘old people who have retired to live on a boat’ category.
One of the pubs was within touching distance of a ‘lock’ which was used to raise or lower water levels so barges could continue on their journeys. For some reason this used to light a fire under customers and they would flock to see a boat navigate the lock. Nothing used to delight me more than to see middle class parents dragging little Toby and Rubella-Florence to watch this mundane act only to see a grubby boatie sat there scowling, smoking a roll up and occasionally spitting into the water.
The other pub had a canal running right alongside the road into the car park. On one of my few days off a taxi drove straight into it and had to be lifted out by a crane. The interesting things always happened on my day off.
REGULARS ARE THE WORST.
“You alright Dan?”
“Not really. The cancer’s back.”
Above is a conversation I had with a regular. A regular is a person who would come to the pub almost as often as you, even though they don’t have to and they don’t get paid. Some you will learn the first name of (e.g. Blind Harry), some will only be known by the name of an ale you sold 3 years ago because they complained so much when you stopped selling it (e.g. the Seafarers).
Some of them wanted a conversation. Some of them I’m pretty sure I was the only person they’d ever talk to. That’s fine. We’re not friends though. When I quit one of my pubs jobs I remember a regular saying “oh well, stay in touch.” No, I’m not going to stay in touch. I’m not even staying in touch with the staff. All I know about you is what you drink.
Being friendly is obviously heinous but equally I had innumerable regulars who acted as if they had been forced at knife point to come and sit in my pub and read their paper. Anything would warrant a tut or a passive aggressive shake of the head. These ones almost always believed they some how owned or had investment in the pub because they spent all their miserable lives there. This meant giving their opinion on everything from the lighting, my haircut and the price of their drink. I remember distinctly one time when the price of a pint had increased by 5p overnight and one such arsehole’s eyes went scarlet.
THE CUSTOMER IS ALWAYS WRONG.
They are sometimes alright though, customers. The problem is you can have 10 polite, friendly, unstupid* customers in a row and one knuckle-dragging, hyper-aggressive cretin will make sure you forget that the concept of politeness even exists.
“Pint of Stella”
“We don’t do Stella”
“Well you did Stella last week”
No we didn’t. Do you know how I know? Because I’ve been working 12 days in a row and changing brands of lager is the equivalent of an orgasm when you’re this bored. I think I’d remember. I’m not surprised you’ve forgotten though, I remember seeing you drink your 7th Peroni with that woman who isn’t your wife.
I used to get stuff like that fairly regularly, people never entertain the notion that perhaps they’re mistaken. From the common or garden ‘when did you move the toilets?‘ to the lesser spotted ‘has that canal always been there?‘ there’s always some loudmouth offering their incorrect facts on the place you know better than the back of your hand. It’s fair to assume that most of the teenagers working don’t know much of what is going on but I’ve been doing this for a long time now and I don’t need you to slur out what you think aioli is.
YOU WILL FIND ANY AND ALL WAYS TO COMBAT BOREDOM
If you have no customers, it’s a blessing. But unlike almost any other industry, when there are no customers there is absolutely nothing to do. As in actually nothing. As in standing behind a bar staring straight ahead. In the winter especially you’ll find you have a lot of time to kill so you have to be creative. Very occasionally a supervisor won’t have locked themselves ‘in the office’ with ‘stuff to do’ so you’ll have to be subtle. Usually in this case I’d find ambiguous quotes from Adolf Hitler to write on the various chalkboards.
More often though you’ll be left entirely to your own devices. In this case I found playing golf with a broom, a dustpan and a tennis ball can pass a chunk of time. Another good one is the Ice Bucket Challenge, where you throw a chunk of ice into a bucket from a considerable distance. Sounds boring but smashing ice off a wall makes a significant amount of noise, especially if there’s only one customer in. Float Scratching, Float burned brightly but briefly, the premise being you put a pork scratching in someone’s coffee. If it floats then they see it and the game is ruined. If it doesn’t they get a salty kick at the end of their mocha.** Tabasco in drinks works in a similar way. Someone once put gin in my Redbull and that also worked.
Unfortunately boredom is not restricted to when there are no customers. When it’s exceptionally busy (and two members of staff have tragically fallen ill overnight even though you’ll see their Snapchat story later and they recovered enough to go to a nightclub and they don’t the shame to even try and hide it) customer interactions are reduced to the barest minimum. In this case you’ll be repeating the same handful of stock phrases so often you need something to alleviate the monotony. A classic my colleagues and I enjoyed was saying ‘wank you very much‘ instead of ‘thank you‘ which it turns out is only funny when someone calls you out on it.*** Pen Arm again works best with a busy pub. In layman’s terms you walk up to someone and draw on their arm with permanent marker. Double points if they’re talking to a customer. Tally charts used to feature on busy days as well. It’s a rare pleasure to listen to a customer say something stupid then add it to the day’s Stupid Questions tally.
Another favourite was locking people in the walk-in fridge. This was a speciality of several chefs I worked with and I managed to play a few times when I wasn’t the victim. This ended abruptly, however, when I locked the Area Manager in once and had to go and let him out. There were mixed results with chefs joining in on time wasting. We spent one happy evening playing Fry This, when we saw what would happen to various things in the deep fat fryer. Whereas another day we put a raw egg in a chef’s tea (raw egg will helpfully rest at the bottom of a hot drink) and he was the most angry I’ve ever seen anyone in my life.****
YOU WILL MEET SOME FANTASTIC PEOPLE (AND SOME ABSOLUTE GONKS)
Another half-heard, forgotten analogy: you shouldn’t pick your subjects based on your teacher. I.e. you should enjoy something for what it is not the people involved. I.e i.e. don’t stay in a job you hate because you get to hang around with people you like. Hospitality seems to attract interesting people by and large. People like me who would find sitting in a stagnant office all day cripplingly boring or people who are trying to make other things happen and need some money to fund it. I’ve met some of the funniest people I’ve ever come across in pubs, one of which I write and podcast with to this day (even if he is an idiot). These people made some of the most horrific experiences of my life somehow palatable and many of them I now see in pubs even though I’m not financially obligated to do so (and mostly enjoy it).
Obviously I can’t end like that. I worked with one gentleman who followed me out for a fag break and read his poetry to me. He was fired shortly afterwards for unrelated reasons and I saw him at a supermarket. I stopped to talk to him and mid conversation he pulled a bottle of vodka out of his bag and started drinking from it. It still had the security tag attached. I remember ringing another much loved colleague once in a desperate attempt to get him to come in and help out as we were short staffed.
“Hi mate, any chance you can come in we’re seriously short staffed.”
“Oh sorry I can’t, I’m in Milton Keynes”
“You know you’ve just answered your house phone, right?”
“Oh.”
He didn’t come in. There was an 18 year old who I remember questioning a dear friend of mine who had been working in a kitchen for 5 years. They were arguing about which table a meal needed to be sent to and the teenager said “I think I know, I go to university and you’re just a chef“. Righteous fireworks ensued. By and large though they were okay or funny or boring or incompetent. A lot of them seemed to only work at a pub because it saved them walking to one after work.
PUBS ARE DYING AS WE SPEAK
That knob who ‘went to university’ sums up the attitude I experienced from working in a pub. “Get a proper job“, “why are you doing this if you don’t enjoy it“, “do something better with your life“, “why are you so rude?” that sort of thing was common to hear directed at me and/or the people I worked with. Fair points perhaps but equally the people saying this are in a pub as they say this. If you think it’s beneath us all to work in a pub that’s absolutely fine. We’ll all leave now but you’ll be the one who can’t have your ‘work do’ where you think you’re being a right laugh but the whole table calls you a dickhead when you’re in the toilet.
The UK is one of the few countries in the world where working in hospitality is looked down on and only ever considered a stopgap and not a career. Incidentally that is why you get so many foreign people working in hospitality. And I have no idea who Brexiteers think will soon pour their chestnut ale as they watch a game of cricket on a sun-kissed lawn or whatever chocolate box, Rudyard Kipling Britain they think they live in once they ban immigants.
Increasingly people are choosing not to do it. Including me. The money is appalling and the hours are even worse. You’re treated terribly by people. For the last 18 months I was working we were trying to find a chef. No one wants to do it though and I can’t blame them. As bad as working front of house is I’ve always thought working in a kitchen is tantamount to torture. Bad money, ridiculous hours, stress and working in a sweatbox. On top of this food allergy legislation is now so strict (rightly or wrongly) that breweries are choosing to outsource their menus and take any freedom away from kitchens and in some cases any real cooking. If you’re wondering, that is why managed houses (regardless of ownership) have almost exactly the same menu.
Overall I’ll look fondly on my pub jobs (with time). I’d recommend it to anyone who is bored and in their late teens or a social recluse who needs to learn to speak to people. Hopefully you can get an indulgently long blog post out of it.*****
And talk of sport and makes of cars
In various bogus-Tudor bars
And daren’t look up and see the stars
But belch instead.
*Irony; (noun) the expression of one’s meaning by using language that normally signifies the opposite, typically for humorous or emphatic effect.
**Becomes mean spirited with vegetarians and/or vegans
***A short spin-off of this involved swapping the word hunt for c**t. This lasted one round
****I think this was partly because we ran the egg through the till and made him go and get it and said someone on a canal boat wanted it.
*****Having said that my dream is still to buy both pubs, flatten them and turn them both into car parks